Who is not sad if a long-term love affair lived suddenly had to break up? Expectations for further levels are instantly broken. Habits suddenly change. Of course this will cause deep sadness. The only way out so that you are quickly freed from various shadows and hopes in the past is to move on or let go of the one you love fully. How?
Disconnect with him
The first thing you need to do is to cut off all contact. Unfriend various social media so that you can’t touch each other anymore, whether in cyberspace or in the real world. It’s very good to forgive the person who broke your heart, but not to ask him back in his life. Do you want to be hurt for the second time?
If you do not break the contact, he may come as he pleases when needed and leave after getting pleasure. When the relationship can no longer be maintained alias break up, you need to be selfish and think for yourself. Because you previously struggled with all your heart.
Okay, maybe you don’t have to unfriend right away. But you can use mute or hide features. Anyway, give yourself time to ‘alone’ without having to see and know updates about his life.
Do not run away!
The second way is to deal with the pain that you are feeling, don’t run away or even look for escape! Don’t carry other people in your pain. It’s fine if you permit work for a while, or cry all Ladies, no problem at all. In fact, missing your ex-lover is a natural thing to happen.
Do not hide from the pain that occurs. Confront bravely, make valuable lessons for future love relationships. As time goes by, you will slowly improve. When you say his name and remember the memories with him but it doesn’t hurt anymore, you are slowly healing or recovering.
Another thing that you need to emphasize carefully in your mind is to stop imagining things that are not. Relationships can end for a variety of reasons, don’t pretend you didn’t do anything or anything. Your relationship won’t return even if you wish you hadn’t. If you keep doing it, your pain will get worse.
So Ladies, take a deep breath and then give yourself various realities that must be faced. Because life is not always about love relationships, it can be a better job. Don’t fantasize again or if he returns, just focus on your present world.
Hopefully those three ways you can do well. In essence, if you have the will everything can be handled properly. Yes, beautiful spirit, you will get better things in the future. Believe me!